Unraveling the double bind of sexual shame

Unraveling the double bind of sexual shame

This past weekend, someone I likely knew closely in the past attempted to anonymously shame my sexuality. As soon as I read the comment, a stinging heat took over my inner experience. My heart squeezed, and my breath shortened. It was the beginning of a shame spiral...
How we heal in relationships

How we heal in relationships

In the following week after we launched the consensual culture fundraiser last Monday, I froze.  I froze because asking for $25,000 is not just about making sure our team and business are well resourced, nor just about creating scholarships for queer, trans...