Our capacity to belong

Our capacity to belong

One of the ways consensual culture is growing within me is our essential design of feeling belonging to ourselves and each other- a central thesis to this body of work.  As I deepen my relationship to my needs and limits; a muscle that eluded me for most of my...
Abolishing capitalism within us

Abolishing capitalism within us

As the sky looms cloudy and grey in San Diego, I’m relating to a false sense of urgency within me that I’ve come to know intimately over the last few years in my embodiment journey. This felt-sense of speed and scarcity is a product of being socialized within...
How we heal in relationships

How we heal in relationships

In the following week after we launched the consensual culture fundraiser last Monday, I froze.  I froze because asking for $25,000 is not just about making sure our team and business are well resourced, nor just about creating scholarships for queer, trans...